Sunday, May 5, 2013

Stanley A. Milner library/ consumer psychology/ survival tips

Apr. 13 Stanley A. Milner library: I got this magazine called Alberta Views in the mail.  It's a good magazine, very well-written about the issues that are happening in Alberta in general from rent to politics.

There was a really good article called "Beyond Books" by Jay Smith.  It talked about how a lot of people who enter the Stanley A. Milner library are homeless, have significant mental health issues, or have considerable cognitive disabilities.

I didn't know there were social workers at the library.  It profiled David McMain and Jared Tkachuk who are social workers on EPL's payroll that started in 2011 from the provincial govt. Safe Communities Innovation Fund.

There are a lot of social programs there like: "a weekly drop-in group for people who are homeless, guest speakers talk about health and house, a weekly youth group for at-risk teens, a Friday afternoon film series that explores topics such as addiction, homelessness and shopping cart racers (the movie is called Carts of Darkness.)

McMain: I'm a big believer in social justice.  I believe libraries at their very core are a socially just enterprise because they share information- and knowledge is power."

Margaret Thatcher: I found this picture in 24 News on Thurs. Apr.11, 2013.  There is this graffiti on a wall in Belfast, Ireland.  It says: "Iron Lady?  Rust in Peace."

No disrespect to Margaret Thatcher, but I thought it was kind of funny.

Apr. 24 Consumer psychology: I cut out this Globe and Mail article "Who's at the top of your shopping list?  You" by Zosia Bielski on Dec. 7, 2012.  It was about Christmas shopping and buying things for yourself and then things for your family and friends.

"Self-gifting has grown 27% in the past 5 yrs, with consumers now spending 20% of their total Christmas allotment on themselves, according to the US National Retail Federation, which surveyed 9000 Americans."  It's estimated they will spend $237 on themselves.

People justify it as they saved so much money from the post recession discounts, that they can spend it on themselves.  It's also like a reward to yourself for working hard all year.

Doug Stephens is the Toronto author of The Retail Revival: Reimagining Business for the New Age of Consumerism.  He is also the president of Retail Prophet which consults retailers about consumer behavior.  They also talked to Kit Yarrow, a consumer research psychologist at Golden Gate University in San Francisco.

Yarrow (about our grandmother's generation): "They had much more stringent rules around humility, gratitude, and giving.  We live in an all-about-me society...We've got marketers and retailers feeding people lines like, 'You deserve it.'  It's more socially acceptable to be thinking about yourself at a time when, really, the gift season is supposed to be about others."

Yarrow: "When you open your wallet, it's like the floodgates open.  The first spend is the hardest- every spend after that is easier."

"Credit cards are worse than cash.  Worse is paying with your phone, and even worse is paying with a gift card.  And even worse is paying with a return where you get a store credit.  These things are all really commonly used during the holidays.  They all degrade the real value of money."

"We're overloaded with stimulation: It's crowded, we're carrying bags, it's hot, sometimes we're thirsty.  When we're stressed out by crowds, physical constraints, competition and fear of missing out, we think just a little bit less clearly."

"It'd be really nice if we could put a little meter in our heads.  While we shop, the meter would remind us how much we actually earn per hour.  We would really understand what it takes, workwise, to pay for some of the things we buy.  People would spend a lot less money.  I don't think we could tolerate it- that's why we won't do it."

Stephens: "Consumers get overwhelmed with the endorphin rush and they can't help themselves.  Good retailers understand how to turn those screws."

"It's psychologically easier to spend money online.  You're not going through the visceral feeling of handing someone your credit card or putting your debit card in that machine, entering the numbers.  Once your credit card and shipping information are entered into Amazon, all your saying is 'add to cart' and then 'confirm.'  That's a totally different psychological thing than having to physically go to a store and go through the guilty process."

Professors at Boston College and the University of Houston said that after people bought one high end item, they started buying more high end items because they felt nothing could measure up to the one luxury item.

Apr. 26 Hit and run: I found this on Yahoo about how a hit-and-run driver hit a 4yr old girl way back in 1968.  He then was never caught.  He finally confessed, but he won't be arrested due to the statute of limitations.
http://ca.news.yahoo.com/facebook-posting-leads-police-driver-us-girls-hit-174539241.html

Survival tips: Here are 11 tips on how to survive during a mass shooting.  I was checking 20/20 website to see what's on.

1. Prepare- practice exit drills.

2. Run- and take others with you.

3. Leave the cell phone.

4. Can't run?  Hide- and block the doors with a sofa, chair, desk.

5. Silence your cell phone- use the land line phone.

6. Why the land line? -Because then if you drop the phone, the address will appear on the computer and they will know where you are.

7. Fight- if it comes to that.  Hot coffee, pens, scissors are good weapons.

8. Forget about getting shot- fight.  "Most people who are shot by a gun survive. So understand that and cling to that. Just keep fighting. ... You want to buy time. You want to distract this person, because it's going to take police three or four minutes to get [there]."

9. Aim high- fight his hands and get the gun.  Or go for his face like eyes, face, shoulder, and neck.

10. Fight as a group.

11. Whatever you do, do something- like don't freeze. 

"The first five seconds of an active shooter incident [are] paramount," Bruner said. Don't freeze in disbelief. "React immediately."
"The game has changed," Bruner said. "This country is experiencing a lot of traumatic incidents, as we well know, so you have to be prepared."

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/run-hide-fight-11-tips-survive-shooting/story?id=18990573#.UXsMRkpcfTo

Apr. 27 20/20: I watched the whole 20/20 episode last night.  It was good.  They talked to Irene Taiman who works in a NYC design company.  One man was a co-worker and a rival to this other worker there.  They got into a fight and Man #1 shot Man #2 outside the building.

Hundreds of people die a year in workplace shootings.  They talked to this like 70 yr old guy, last name Husfield.  There was video taped footage of a school board meeting, and a deranged man pulls out a gun and points it at them.  Husfield tries to calm him down by talking him down.  The man points and shoots at him pretty close, and shoots at the others and misses.  Fortunately a security guard shoots the gunman down.

I think I have seen a lot of office shoot outs like in Criminal Minds and Flashpoint.  I watch lots of TV shows and movies.  I remember in Miami Vice movie, there was a shoot out in the club.  Everybody runs away screaming. 

On a Flashpoint ep, a guy holds up a bag and says "I got a bomb!"  Everybody runs away screaming.  You should run and call 911.     
  

No comments: