Saturday, January 30, 2021

Post Secret (Part 8)/ "Bernie Sanders turned his inauguration meme into a sweatshirt to raise money for charity"

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Dec. 31, 2016

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—email—
Frank:
I live oversees and far away from any of the PostSecret events or books in bookstores. I have been reading and following the site for years now and like so many site visitors, it has become ritual on Sunday morning.

I am writing to share with you my recent PostSecret observation, which is: to be “post-secret” is a feeling of the relief of an inner burden, where burden is so very subjective.

For me, knowing that each week people are feeling post-secret leaves me feeling optimistic in a very real way. Whether by intention or not, I think that the name PostSecret is brilliant. It is both verb and adjective. An action and a reaction.

I would like to wish you and everyone in the PostSecret community, a 2017 of hope, feeling and one of learning. A post-secret year.
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Jan. 18, 2021 My opinion: You can always read news and magazine articles, listen to podcasts and TED talks, and listen and watch self- development videos on Youtube and Facebook.

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Jan.7, 2017:

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My opinion: At least this person feels guilty about it.

Jan. 17, 2021 My opinion: As I'm rereading this, I want to add: At least this person has changed.

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—–Email—–

Howdy!
The past two weeks have been long, rough, and painful. I haven’t had enough sleep and have been feeling unwelcome in my place of residence. I was already emotional, but I didn’t realize how much seeing ‘PostSecret The Show’ would effect me. I submitted three secrets before the performance began, which is big for me. I don’t open up to people often if at all, and it was hard for me to write down the things I have held in my mind. I felt relieved after writing my secrets.

Then the show began, and I lost it. I walked out of the theatre at intermission sobbing. The second half began and I continued to cry. Listening to everything people had submitted and hearing all the heartwarming and tear-jerking stories was such a powerful experience. While I watched the pictures of people holding their secrets on white boards move across the board, I got an idea. 

I had something that needed to be said, something I had not told a soul. It was something my mom deserved to hear. After the show, while fighting back tears, I wrote my message to my mother on a white board and held it up for a picture. I had my friend snap a picture of the moment and send it to me. Then I sent my secret to my mom.

She was in tears. She called me crying and told me how much that meant to her and how much she loves me. I was crying as well. My mom told me that even my dad was in tears; my dad doesn’t cry often so I considered this an accomplishment. I continued to tell my mom how much I cried because of PostSecret. Her response was this: “You are a rock most of the time. Sometimes it’s okay to be the river.”

Thank you so much! I am forever changed because of PostSecret.


There isn't a theme this week, but here are the other blog posts:

Cover letter mistakes/ "Job can be worse than no job"



"Finding success and satisfaction with a side hustle"/ "Is 'hustle culture' a health detriment?"






My week: 


Jan. 16, 2020 Cuddle+Kind: They sell stuffed animals.  For every doll bought, they donate 10 meals.

We're a family of five on a mission to help feed children in need.

There's nothing we love more than being parents. We think nurturing our three children is the most important, rewarding and sometimes challenging job in the world!

With a background in health, we recognize the crucial role nutrition plays in a child's development. As parents, we believe all children should have enough food to eat and the opportunity to thrive, so when we saw a documentary on the devastating impact of childhood hunger on millions of children around the world, it inspired us to help. On that day, we decided to start a company whose purpose is to help improve the lives of children and to make a difference.

We created cuddle+kind because we wanted to make beautiful hand-knit dolls that help feed children. So for every cuddle+kind doll sold, we give 10 meals to children in need.


We wanted to create a sustainable stream of giving that wouldn’t rely on donations. Since September 2015, we’re thrilled that your purchases have helped provide over 13 million meals to children in need! 


Our Story – cuddle+kind CA (cuddleandkind.com)

cuddle + kind dolls | 1 hand-knit doll = 10 meals – cuddle+kind (cuddleandkind.com)

Jan. 22, 2021 "Bernie Sanders turned his inauguration meme into a sweatshirt to raise money for charity":

Sen. Bernie Sanders turned his inauguration meme into a charitable opportunity.

On Wednesday, the Vermont senator was photographed sitting in a chair wearing a Burton parka, hand-knit mittens, and a surgical blue mask. The image went viral as people edited Sanders into everything from iconic New York locations to scenes from popular movies. A student at New York University even created a website so people could place the photo anywhere in the world.

A crewneck featuring the image was then made available to purchase on Sanders' website for $45. After initially selling out, the sweatshirt was back in stock on Friday afternoon in sizes small through 2XL. A representative for Sanders did not immediately respond to Insider's request for comment on how much stock was left.

The website also said that because of overwhelming demand, the sweatshirts would arrive in three to six weeks.

According to the product description, 100% of the proceeds will go toward Meals on Wheels Vermont.

Bernie Sanders sells sweatshirt with inauguration meme for charity - Insider

Larry King dies at 87:

He had his first heart attack in 1987, which prompted him to found the non-profit Larry King Cardiac Foundation the following year, in order to help people without insurance or the money to pay for the medical care they need.

King himself struggled with additional heart problems, cancer and other health issues over the years. In November 2019, he said he had suffered a stroke eight months earlier. Then, on Jan. 2, CNN and others reported that King had been hospitalized for more than a week, after testing positive for COVID-19.

Larry King, television legend, dies at age 87 (yahoo.com)

Jan. 30, 2021 FBI: I also got to watch 2 new episodes of this show this week.

I also got to watch the season ep I missed called "American Dreams" that I missed last year, though I series record this show.


The Equalizer: This show is coming on after the Super Bowl on Feb. 7.  I will record this, and the show after that.  You know how the Super Bowl always runs really long.  I will check out the pilot and record the series and watch this all in a week.

"An enigmatic figure who uses her extensive skills to help those with nowhere else to turn."

The Equalizer (TV Series 2021– ) - IMDb


Clarice: This show comes on Thurs. Feb. 11.  I saw the Hannibal movie and didn't really like it.  I did like the Hannibal TV show when I watched the 1st season and a half on Netflix.  I will check out the pilot and record the series and watch this all in a week.

"A look at the untold personal story of FBI agent Clarice Starling, as she returns to the field about a year after the events of The Silence of the Lambs (1991)."

Clarice (TV Series 2021– ) - IMDb


Palmer: I just saw the trailer to this movie, and it looks good and heartwarming.  I kind of felt like crying and saying "Aww.."

"An ex-convict strikes up a friendship with a boy from a troubled home."

Palmer (2021) - IMDb


Cover letter mistakes/ "Job can be worse than no job"

Nov. 2, 2019 Cover letter mistakes: Today I was reading a Reader's Digest Jan. 2012 issue that my dad bought.  In the "Laughter" section:


This is from real- life applicants from The Office Book by Chloe Rhodes:


"My dream is to be a meteorologist.  But since I possess no training in meteorology, I suppose I should try stockbrokerage." 


"Although I trained as an accountant and for the past eight years I worked for a major accountancy firm, I am no good at my job and get bored easily."



From Amazon:


Both a field guide to office survival and discussion of the woes and follies in the workplace, The Office Book is a delightfully subversive look at the world of work. Contains anecdotes, real life cover letter gaffes, resume quotes, outrageous emails, and other creative distractions that offer a lifeline from the depths of 9-to-5 monotony. Inside you'll find:


  • Office Survival Rules: Rule #99-If at first you don't succeed, remove all evidence you ever tried

  • Office Games: Including the ever-popular Jargon Bingo

  • Office Language: Fully loaded with a glossary of terms and employee written- and verbal-faux pas

  • Office Décor: Tactics to encourage your employer to purchase items, necessary or not, that will make your space more welcoming

  • Office Horror Stories: When Christmas parties go wrong

  • Playing Hooky: Sneaky maneuvers to acquire a spontaneous personal day

  • Office Waste Management: A list of ways to waste company time



The Office Book





I went through some old magazines that my dad bought.  I wanted to appreciate what we already own.

Jun. 27, 2017: I found this article by Michael Kesterton on Dec. 3, 2012 in the Globe and Mail: 


Job can be worse than no job

“Scientists have long known that stress can lead to physical symptoms, but the explicit link between job-related anxiety and ailments is now becoming clearer,” writes Paula Froelich in The Daily Beast. 

“According to a study by the Centre for Mental Health Research at Australian National University, people with jobs characterized by 

high demand and low control over decision-making, 

high job insecurity 

and an imbalance between expended effort and reward 

actually experienced poorer mental health than those who were jobless.

In other words, people who can’t find a job have a healthier state of mind than those who are employed and feel overwhelmed, insecure, underpaid, and micromanaged.”

Here's the rest of the article of news that are not related to jobs:



Sometimes the Grinch wins

Hundreds of shoppers in England were left confused when a festive light unveiling had to be cancelled because no one could find the “on” switch, reports The Daily Telegraph. “More than 200 people had braved the cold conditions in Dovercourt, Essex for the town’s big switch on. Carol singers, a choir and Father Christmas gathered for the event but chaos ensured when the lights would not turn on. Organizers rushed around trying to solve the problem … The ‘on’ switch was only located the next day.”

An incredible discovery

“Normally, North Korea’s official state news agency is the place to go for reports ranging from the reclusive totalitarian state’s unparalleled scientific achievements to the limitless love which its inhabitants reserve for their successive leaders,” says The Guardian. “Yet in what appears to be a genuine world exclusive, the inimitable Korean Central News Agency has now broken the incredible news that architects in Pyongyang have discovered a unicorn’s lair. … The KCNA goes on to state that the location happens to be 200 metres from a temple in the North Korean capital, adding: ‘A rectangular rock carved with words ‘Unicorn Lair’ stands in front of the lair.’”

Pollution rate rises

“Last year, all the world’s nations combined pumped nearly 38.2 billion tons of carbon dioxide into the air from the burning of fossil fuels such as coal and oil, according to new international calculations on global emissions published Sunday in the journal Nature Climate Change,” reports Associated Press. “That’s about a billion tons more than the previous year. The total amounts to more than 2.4 million pounds (1.1 million kilograms) of carbon dioxide released into the air every second.”


Too hot to be bothered

“Are you turning the heat up too high?” writes Kevin Lewis in The Boston Globe. “According to a recent study, it’s a simple-minded mistake for more than one reason.

 People in rooms that were at 25C were more cognitively depleted, especially when confronted with complex decisions, compared with people in rooms at 20 C. An analysis of lottery sales throughout the year in St. Louis also revealed that purchases were down on hotter days, especially for more complicated gambles. 

Not only do these findings suggest that office managers and retailers should be minding the thermostat … but the authors of the study note that this effect may explain different economic behaviour at different latitudes.”

Clichés, good and bad

From a review in Prospect magazine of Nigel Fountain’s Clichés: Avoid Them Like the Plague

“The word [cliché] itself originates in mid-19th-century France, where printers would assemble time-saving blocks from the most commonly used word combinations. … Not all clichés, you might say, are created equal.

 ‘At the end of the day,’ which has been justly voted the most hated cliché, is little more than a verbal tic. ‘All things being equal is another. Strip them from a sentence and its sense remains unchanged. Attempt the same thing with an apposite cliché and you might find you’re missing more than succinct wisdom. You’ve lost a bit of history because, far from being vacuous, the most enduring clichés tether you to generations of human experience.”

Thought du jour

“Predominant opinions are generally the opinions of the generation that is vanishing.”

Benjamin Disraeli
British Prime Minister (1804-81)






"Finding success and satisfaction with a side hustle"/ "Is 'hustle culture' a health detriment?"

Sept. 3, 2019  "Finding success and satisfaction with a side hustle": Today I found this article by Carola Vyhnak in the Star Metro:
At his first auction as a 14-year-old, Isaac Northcott quite literally got hooked on antiques and collectibles.
Five years later, wrought iron hooks are among the upcycled home decor items the Oshawa university student makes and sells in his side business called Green Turtle Salvage.
With 10 to 15 hours a week spent on sourcing materials and creating everything from tree-branch coasters to refinished beam benches, Northcott earns anywhere from $100 to $1,200 weekly in sales online and at a farmers market.
The money goes toward his education, savings and investments so he can eventually buy his own place to live and work, says the 19-year-old self-taught entrepreneur.
Northcott is among the 22 per cent of Canadians who have turned a creative hobby into a side hustle. 
Boosting income is the prime motivation but doing something they enjoy is also a big incentive, according to new research by Vistaprint, an online provider of marketing products and services to small businesses.
The study of almost 2,000 full-time workers revealed that average sideline earnings amount to $1,285 a month, mostly commonly in the IT, financial and creative fields.
Side businesses can be started at any age or stage — Vistaprint’s survey revealed that 70 per cent of those 55 and older have done so or aspire to. And most millennials expect it to be the norm in the future.
“Canada’s side business economy is booming, as employees increasingly look for financial, professional and personal fulfilment that may not be present in their main job,” says Simon Braier, Vistaprint’s customer strategy and insights director.
More than one-third of survey participants said they’d like their side business to become their primary pursuit if it generated enough income.
Northcott, who’s in his second year of a four-year program in finance at the University of Ontario Institute of Technology (UOIT), aims to turn his part-time gig into a full-time career.
“You have to have good margins to make it worthwhile,” observes the young businessman who’s learned how to adapt to varied and changing markets.
With an initial investment of $2,000 to $3,000 for materials, he produced a sizable inventory that ranges from vintage licence plates for $10, and coat and key hooks mounted on salvaged barn boards for $30 to $80, to refinished-beam benches for $175 to $350. He also makes planters from reclaimed tire rims, live-edge benches and coffee tables, and does custom orders.
Northcott sells his pieces on Instagram and Facebook as well as Brooklin Vintage Decor, a Whitby antique store where he learned how to refinish furniture and still has a part-time job. He also works for an auction house.
Making home furnishings and accessories from reclaimed and repurposed materials allows him “to express my creativity,” says Northcott, whose business name is a nod to the environment and a favourite animal.
Trial and error have taught him what sells and what doesn’t, says the craftsman, who responds by sometimes dismantling and recreating pieces.
According to “proud grandma” Linda Fockler, Northcott’s entrepreneurial spirit and artistic talent surfaced as a kid selling homemade greeting cards through a local store.
“He was born that way — he’s been a businessman forever!” she says on a recent visit to the Cobourg farmers market where Northcott appeared every Saturday for three months.
It’s that kind of dedication that will help a side business succeed, according to Braier.
“If you genuinely have a passion for something, you will be able to make some money at it, in theory.”
But taking the plunge can be thwarted by time and money constraints or aversion to risk. The typical side hustler spends 14 hours per week working on their venture, but one-quarter of those polled devote more than 20 hours a week, usually during evenings and weekends.
Braier warns about the downside: potential for fatigue, work overload and interference with family and social life. But he advises picking something you truly enjoy, then taking a realistic look at how much time you can spend on it.
It’s important to set long-term goals; saving the down payment for a house, for example, he says. Success also involves focusing on tasks that generate revenue, networking with other side business owners, and using social media to promote your products or services.
https://www.thestar.com/life/advice/2019/09/03/many-canadians-are-finding-success-and-satisfaction-with-a-side-hustle.html

Dec. 3, 2019 "Is 'hustle culture' a health detriment?": Today I found this article by 
Tara Deschamps in the Star Metro:


When Avery Francis thinks about the last three years of her life, she has plenty to celebrate.

The Toronto-based entrepreneur, after all, founded three successful companies — equitable hiring system developer Bloom, women’s workshop organizer Sunday Showers and tech education company Bridge School — in that timespan.

But they have come with a cost.
Francis often finds herself working until 3 a.m., and struggling to find time to keep up with friends she notices she is slowly drifting from. She jokes she’s packed on “the founder’s 15” due to eating out at meetings, late at night when she finally gets home and in her car as she commutes to the office.

“This is what it takes. I don’t think I could even run one of the businesses without having such strained hours,” she says. “There’s a lot to balance. A lot of sleepless nights and terrible sleeping patterns.”

Francis’ experience places her in a growing group of entrepreneurs, founders, and workers feeling the emotional and physical toll of being employed by the tech and startup industries, where long hours, skipping occasions with family and friends and being available on weekends and evenings is the norm.

Avery Francis believes “hustle culture” has been perpetuated by a the fetishization of overworking yourself and prioritizing the office above all else.

That culture has been perpetuated by a generation inundated with “hustle” culture — the fetishization of overworking yourself and prioritizing the office above all else. It often downplays the medical, emotional, physical and mental risks that such rigour comes with.

Tech companies ranging from the heavyweights like Google, Facebook and Apple to startups haven’t helped matters. Their leaders live by the “move fast and break things” mantra and often preach about staying hungry and “obsessing” over how their companies and products can be improved.

Take Tesla CEO Elon Musk, as an example. There are easier places to work than his company, “but nobody ever changed the world on 40 hours a week,” he tweeted last year.

“A lot of founders and CEOS will write long stories of their journey to success and it will just be like I did 80 hours a week for like six years straight, and I lost all my friends and my marriage failed and all this stuff,” says Francis.

“They’re basically helping to perpetuate this whole concept that you have to hustle.”

Twitter and Square founder Jack Dorsey wakes up at 5 a.m., meditates twice daily, only eats one meal a day and walks five miles to work — a trek he told “Tools of Titans” author Tim Ferriss he makes without checking emails or texting.

Apple CEO Tim Cook reportedly wakes at 3:45 a.m., sifting through about 800 emails and hitting the gym, before making it to his desk.

“I don’t know how those people have the time to do that,” Francis says. “I don’t have time to meditate or go to the gym for two hours a day.”

Their offices — often sprinkled with fully-stocked kitchens, nap pods, showers, mini putt courses, foosball tables, gyms and swanky lounges — don’t help matters either. They can send the message that “basically you’re going to live here,” she adds.

Stefan Kollenberg at diversity and inclusion software company Crescendo, doesn’t completely agree. In some cases, he says, those amenities are meant to make employees’ lives easier and reward them for their work, not keep them living at work.

But he does believe hustle culture has a dangerous side because he encountered it in a previous job, when he was working roughly 12-hour days five or six days a week for four months. Eventually, he became less interested in the work and quit.

“Where it gets really toxic is when you’re not taking care of yourself and you’re working all these long hours,” he says. “I wouldn’t agree it is toxic everywhere, but I think that when it’s not managed properly, it is toxic.”

His words echoed those of Alexis Ohanian, the co-founder of social media platform Reddit and venture capital firm Initialized Capital, who recently opened up about how it triggered depression.

“This idea that unless you are suffering, grinding, working every hour of every day, you’re not working hard enough … this is one of the most toxic, dangerous things in tech right now,” Ohanian said at Web Summit, one of Europe’s largest tech conferences.

Latvian conductor Mariss Jansons is credited with raising the reputation of the Oslo Philharmonic through recordings and international tours during a 23-year tenure as music director.

https://www.pressreader.com/canada/starmetro-vancouver/20191203/281698321612381