Wednesday, April 10, 2013

bad parenting/ charity/ Rehtaeh Parsons

Apr. 1 Bad parenting: I found this on Yahoo.  Here is a "Photo of an Infant Left Alone in Locked Car."  Then it gets worse:

"A note, seemingly written from the baby's perspective, is attached to the chest and reads, 'my mums in doing the shopping, call her if I need anything.' There is a phone number written at the end."

I remember watching Oprah years ago when I was a kid in like elementary school.  Oprah was talking to some expert about taking your kids into the store and not leaving them in the car.  It could get really hot in the car.

I also have read a couple of news stories where a car gets stolen with a baby or a child inside the car.

http://ca.news.yahoo.com/blogs/trending-now/photo-infant-left-alone-locked-car-goes-uber-172923624.html

Death on Survivor: I found this on Yahoo.  On the French version of Survivor, 24 yr old Gérald Babin died of cardiac arrest.  That is so sad.  They cancelled the 16th season of this show.  In the article, it did say there was extensive medical tests for all the contestants.

http://ca.omg.yahoo.com/news/french-survivor-canceled-death-25-152900312.html

Gay sperm banned:
I found this article I clipped out way back in Jan. 29, 2007 in the Edmonton Journal.  It's about the Ontario court says it will ban gay men from donating sperm to sperm banks.  They can't donate because they could risk spreading HIV to women and their unborn children.  I did find this article where you can read more about it:

http://gaylife.about.com/od/stdsgeneralhealth/a/spermdonation.htm

Sugar babies: I found this article in 24 on Jan. 25, 2013.  It's about sugar babies at the University of Alberta.  It's by Allison Salz.  I wrote about sugar babies before last year:
http://badcb.blogspot.ca/2012/03/productive-fertility-sugar-babies.html

Petros Kusmu, vice-president external at U of A Student's Union: "I think the whole sugar daddy story is representative of the fact that students are having to make tough decisions to make ends meet."

The U of A is 4th out of 20 Canadian universities by the website SeekingArrangement.com.  A sugar daddy is a wealthy and generous guy who gives financial help to a young person in return for friendship and companionship.

Me: Reading this article was an eye-opener.  If you read that other post, I only seen it on fictional TV shows and an American young woman talking about it on 20/20.  It's to hear that it happens in Edmonton was a little closer to home.

To Catch a Predator: I found this article in 24 on Nov. 22, 2011.  "Quebec father takes to Facebook to expose predators."  Dany Lacerte joined Facebook and posed as a 13 yr old girl.  He says he catches about 5 men a day.

Lacerte: "One time it took about 2 min. before someone offered me sexual favors."

He and his 2 friends goes and meets the men he tricks, films them and then writes about it on Facebook and calls it "Against cyber predators in Quebec."

He does it because he has 2 daughters.  He had put two videos and then has to take them down because the faces weren't blurred. 

Lawyer Alandre Gilbert Vanasse: "To publicize someone's face, to make it identifiable and associate it with pedophilia- which is extremely socially reprehensible- exposes you to legal action, whether the person is a pedophile or not.

Lacerte is going to blur the video and then it put it back on.

I Google his name and all I get are a bunch of French websites.  lol.

 Apr. 3 Charity: I got this article "Toward better, smarter foreign aid" in the Globe and Mail, Mar. 30, 2013.

"There are 800 million fewer people living in poverty today than there were in 1990.  Some of the emerging economies are growing at a faster rate than Canada's.  The proportion of people who lack dependable access to good sources of drinking water has been halved- two years ahead of the time frame set out in the Millennium Development Goals."

Apr. 4 Save the ocean: Ginny Grimsley emailed me this article from Veronica Grey.  Grey gave these tips:

• Americans buy 2 million bottles of water every five minutes; ditch plastic bottles and use glass or recyclable cans.
 Carry a cost-effective canvas bag instead getting disposable plastic bags at the grocery store. We waste 10 billion plastic bags every week!
 Do not line your trash cans with plastic bags. Use paper bags or nothing.
 Skip the lid on your to-go drinks. The paper cup is normally recyclable but the lid usually isn't.
 Remember that each and every time you flush; it all ends up in the ocean. Be mindful of what you toss in your toilet!

Apr. 9 Kidnapping: My friend Sam emailed me back about this.  I asked her if I can quote her on it, and she says yes.

This is about the grandparents kidnapping the grandson. 

http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/01/michael-landers-dad-breaks-silence-about-sons-abduction-says-he-forgives-parents-for-taking-him/
Sam: he seriously believes his grandparents were in the right, but were they? i suspect he is very prejudiced against his own parents. assuming that the grandparents in now way abused him, it is still sad they they should decide that a handicapped mother who had had to allow them custody while she was in a group home and found an apartment, going through all the legal proceedings (proving she was not THAT badly handicapped) to regain custody first for weekends then applying for more is considered unfit to the point that they removed her from the child's life rather than finding proof if she was unfit and going through the proper authorities if they felt she was that poor a parent.

they had disappeared after their son refused to allow them to fully adopt his son. the father was unemployed at the time, but visiting regularly. it is, all in all, a very grey area and only time will show why the grandparents felt they 'had to do it' - by whether or not the son ever agrees to see either parent and how he treats them.

Apr. 10 Rehtaeh Parsons: Last night I was watching TV and after it was the 11pm CTV news.  I saw the part about this 17 yr old girl named Rehtaeh Parsons who committed suicide from cyber bullying.  First she was gang-raped by 4 boys at a party.  Then a picture of her circulated on the internet and everybody harassed her for it.

This morning I read more about in the Globe and Mail article by Tu Thanh Ha and Jane Taber.  She changed schools and couldn't concentrate in her classes.  She did see therapists.

Feelings: I feel so sorry for her and her family.  I read the 24 news everyday so I know what's going on in the world like Margaret Thatcher, the first female British Prime Minister passing away, and also about the Keystone Pipeline talks.  However, this story about Rehtaeh really got to me emotionally.

What can I do?  Tell people, specifically teens:

Don't rape.
Don't cyber bully and harass people.
Don't be mean.

In the Globe article, Wayne Mackay a Dalhousie University law professor says there should be better education in schools and guidance counselors. 

I know I just sent an email/ blog post yesterday, but I feel this is very important to write about.

http://ca.news.yahoo.com/blogs/dailybrew/cyber-bullying-claims-another-sexual-assault-victim-nova-212003391.html

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