Thursday, November 15, 2012

Zellers/ missing girl/ homeless man saves baby

Oct. 2 Zellers: I guess I'm interested in this because this store is going to be gone forever.  I also really like those Zeddy commercials on Youtube.  It's also because I'm really into business.  I like reading the comments on Youtube about how Zellers didn't change or improve themselves to do well in the economy.   

Here's some Youtube comments on the Zeddy commercial where the manager abandons him in the woods:

"Because North America likes to buy cheap crap from China sold in American stores."

Me: That's a good way to put it.  lol.

"This is a horrible commercial. It actually promotes abandoning animals when times get tough."

"What, this messed-up for all the zellers employees who are going to lose their job... what a lack of tact and respect. This add makes me sick."

"I feel bad for the employees. In my town Walmart bought our Zellers. All employees lost their jobs and had to apply to Walmart at reduced wages. I actually don't see any Zeller's employees here anymore - all new people willing to put up with Walmart's poor employee treatment. Zellers had crap products for years so I won't miss them but I feel cheated out of a Target store. Our town does not need two Walmarts - it's under 100,000 people. Stupid."

Me: If your town is less than 100,000 people, then it's not big enough for a Target.

"How the f--- is this funny? This is what the company is doing to all its employees. The suits leave with golden parachutes and take vacations. All the poor vest wearing "associates" are left out in the woods with nothing."

"Zeddy lives in Sarnia!?"

"Every Zellers I have been to (in Ontario) in the last 12 years has had 10-year-old merchandise for exorbitant prices - it threw in the towel when Woolco turned into Wal-Mart, and has been dying by inches since.
Perhaps now we will have some pricing that better reflects our dollar value - these stores are coming in droves to Canada now because there's no more money left to be made in the States.
Personally, I can't wait."

"Next on the chopping block: The Hudson Bay Company..."

Rick Mercer: Here's his parody of a commercial as Zellers is closing down.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tveGfq4zeQw&feature=related

Oct. 3 Shopping: I did a little shopping after work by going to Chapters.  They had these set of 5 pencils for 2 dollars.  It has these fun sayings like "It's not you, it's me."  Before it was on sale, it was $10 which is way too expensive for pencils.  There were also these magnets that look like chewed up gum.

Oct. 8 Once Upon a Time: I was watching these season 1 bloopers of this show.  One of my favorite actors David Anders is a reoccurring character and he has a few shots in there.  50 secs into it, DA is having a drink with Ginnifer Goodwin and they're laughing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TyrSjzrrjG0

Oct. 10 Job jokes: I got this from Daily Silly:

Several weeks after a young man had been hired, he was called into the personnel manager's office.

"What is the meaning of this?" the manager asked. "When you applied for the job, you told us you had 5 years' experience. Now we discover this is the first job you've ever had."


"Well," the young man said, "in your ad you said you wanted somebody with imagination."


Oct. 13: Here's another one from Daily Silly:
 


Employer to applicant: "In this job we need someone who is responsible."

Applicant: "I'm the one you want. On my last job, every time anything went wrong, they said I was responsible."

Saying: I was going through my Freelance emails and found this blog called "Life According to Me.  Eileen Gonzalez writes it and says:' "Lying means you are not happy with yourself, means you are ashamed of something or living in regret."

I agree with that statement.



http://www.lifeaccordingtome.net/?goback=.gde_101577_member_100178558

Oct. 14 Post Secret:

A sexy picture: "I fear becoming successful because I know those pictures I took in high school are out there."

Me: That's like an unintended consequence of taking sexual pictures of yourself.  Let that be a lesson, don't take sexual pictures of yourself.

"If you are male, born July 9, 1958 in Albany, NY and adopted- we might be your FULL siblings!!!"

Oct. 15 Answering machine: I work at a call centre and I got this answering machine message:

"Here are the options.  Leave a message and get a call back.  Don't leave a message, and try again.  Or leave a message and don't get a call back.  Life is exciting."

Oct. 17 Wot Went Wrong: I was reading the Edmonton Journal, and there was an article about this dating website.  It's where people want dating advice and give dating advice anonymously. 

Here's a good 1:37 video about it.  It's the story about how a guy writes what happens in his relationship anonymously.  Like what he likes about her, what he doesn't like about her, and what he should do "Text or not text?"

http://wotwentwrong.com/impressions/how_it_works

Debt: I found this in the Globe and Mail.  Ohio State University said that the more educated you are, the more likely you are to take on irresponsible levels of debt.  It's not student loans.  It's "buying a TV with your 9th credit card."

People with lots of education believe that they can pay down debt so they spend more.  People with college degrees were "more likely than the people with only high school education to pay more than 40% of their monthly income to debt."

Missing girl: I was going through my old emails and found one from 2007.  My friend Dan L. sent this to me.  Reanne Kathleen Vuki is a 12 yr old girl and she's missing from Airdrie.  Her dad Michael Kuvic sent this letter and put it on the internet.  I had forwarded it to my friends back then.

I researched it and found the letter on this site:

http://forums.beyond.ca/showthread/t-169482.html

Here are some pics of her, they were the same ones attached in the email I got.

http://highwayoftears.blogspot.ca/2007_03_01_archive.html

Oct. 18 Homeless man saves baby: I found this on Yahoo news.  It talks to this young couple and they gave birth to their baby daughter in the car at a truck stop.  The baby wasn't breathing, and had the umbilical cord around her neck.  A homeless man named Gary Wilson was hitchhiking and helps resuscitate the baby.

http://ca.news.yahoo.com/blogs/good-news/homeless-angel-saves-newborn-life-oklahoma-truck-stop-145302134.html

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Don't blow it (Amnesty International)


Dear Tracy,

"Don't blow it." That's what I want to say to President Obama.

This is the moment that will define the future of the United States' commitment on human rights. President Obama's second term will determine whether the post 9/11 stains on the United States' human rights record are an anomaly or the "new normal."

President Obama promised to support and advance human rights. Let's hold him to it.

When he was first elected in 2008, President Obama promised a new dawn of American leadership. As a new president, he acknowledged that the protection of human rights cannot rest on exhortation alone.

He offered the promise of an administration that would respect human rights -- closing the Guantánamo prison, bringing detention practices in line with international law, repudiating secrecy and ensuring that human rights weren't traded away in the name of national security.

It really isn't a choice for the President to make. Under international law, the U.S. government is obligated to respect, protect and fulfill human rights, and ensure accountability for violations of those rights.

Tell President Obama to live up to his promises and uphold human rights.

The prison at Guantánamo, indefinite detention, unfair trials, unlawful killings with drones and other human rights violations committed by the U.S government undermine the rule of law in the U.S. and around the world. These abuses also create a climate in which other countries can point to a double-standard to justify their own human rights abuses with the refrain, 'if the U.S. government does that, why shouldn't we?'

By taking bold steps to restore respect for human rights President Obama can help ensure justice, security and accountability here in the U.S. and around the world. That's why he must take three bold actions immediately:
  • Close the prison at Guantánamo
  • Stop unlawful killing with drones
  • Ensure the UN adopts a strong Arms Trade Treaty
President Obama has been given a second chance to keep his promises on human rights. Please stand with us today and call on the president to live up to those promises.

Thank you for everything you do to protect and advance human rights.

Sincerely,
Suzanne Nossel
Executive Director
Amnesty International USA

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Litfest/ Eli Roth/ fun business books

Oct. 20 Litfest: I went out to pick up my paycheck and deposit it.  I passed by the Stanley A. Milner library and see a big sign that the Litfest was there.  I went downstairs, and a woman was sitting at a table.  She says there's a film being shown right now, and it just started.  It costs $5.  She told me it was a documentary about writers talking.

I checked out the books she was selling from the authors there like Noah Richler.

AB magazines: There were lots of AB magazines laid out like Template.  It was the same 2006 issue that I still have back when I was in college.

Get Vrse: There's an ad in the Lit Fest brochure for this design company in Edmonton called Get Vrse.  They designed for the festival, and they won for designing a calender.  Here it is.  It has pics and inspirational quotes: 

http://getvrse.com/work/illustration/

Editorial Freelancers Association: I had written this down so I could look it up later.  It's based in New York City.

Oct. 23 Writing tips: I found this through Freelance Writers.  This is a slide show of tips like "Summarize your idea into 3 or 4 sentences" and "Create an outline."  It also said to allow yourself to change the story if you have other ideas.

It was pretty simple, but it's really to help you focus.

http://www.linkedin.com/groups/Watch-Dependable-Tips-on-Writing-101577.S.99238811?view=&gid=101577&type=member&item=99238811&trk=eml-anet_dig-b_nd-pst_ttle-cn

Oct. 24 Eli Roth: Last Sat. I saw the scary movie Cabin Fever.  It's about a group of college friends who go to a cabin for a week.  They then get infected with this disease and have to survive it.  It was written and directed by Eli Roth.  I thought the name sounded really familiar.  It turns out I had cut something out of him in the newspaper.

I thought he kind of looked like this guy at my work and I showed the picture I printed of him out to him.  He didn't he looked like ER.  I showed it to some other people and one said the eyes did, and the other said his smile did.  ER is also an actor and you can see him in Inglourious Basterds.

The newspaper clipping I have of him says: "The building next door was under construction, and ripping up the ground dug up all the rats that came with it.  Suddenly they were everywhere.  I'll never forget the day we spend wearing breathing masks and rubber gloves, scrubbing out apartment from head to toe, tossing the rotting carcasses into a trash bag.  At one point I looked at my brother and said, 'I'm 25.  I have $300 in a bank account...I'm cleaning up dead mice in a sweltering walk-up on 25th Street.'"

He didn't give up, and 6 months later he had moved to California and raised enough money to shoot his first film called Cabin Fever.

Oct. 25 Movie reviews: Today I wrote a movie review for an online magazine.  I submitted it.  It took me an hr to write it.  I also wrote it differently.  When I write movie reviews for my blog, it contains spoilers, synopsis, my personal comments.  This time, I wrote it like I am submitting it for an online magazine.  I am more professional about it.  We'll see if it gets published, and I can later put it up on my blog.

Oct. 29: Today was my day off and I submitted another movie review for the same online magazine.  It was kind of a struggle to write it.  For example, what should I put in the review without spoiling it?  I should focus on the characters and what the story is about.  Don't write about specific scenes. 

On Spec: I picked up this ad at the Lit Fest for the Canadian magazine On Spec.  They
publish short stories, poems, and art.  They're not accepting any submissions right now.
It's located in Edmonton.  They sell their own merchandise like bags, hats, and cups.

http://www.onspec.ca/
Uppercase: I also picked up an ad for Uppercase magazine that's from Calgary.  It publishes books and magazines for artists.  The submissions are asking for blog submissions like an event.  It also asks for pictures.

http://uppercasemagazine.com/

Writer-in-exile: I picked this brochure up from the library.  "....Edmonton organizations to understand better the needs of "exiled" immigrant writers living in Canada, and to create opportunities for them to pursue a professional career.

http://www.epl.ca/writer-in-exile

Canadian Literature Centre: On the brochure, it mentioned this.  I researched it, and it was from the University of Alberta in 2006.  It was so that researchers, authors, publishers, and public to promote research of Canadian literature. 
http://www.arts.ualberta.ca/clc/index.php?page_id=2&lang_id=0

Fun business books: Alissa Alvarez sent me this article "The 25 Best Business Novels to Dig into this Summer."  I would have put this in my "job" email, but it was more fun.  Most of these books are fictional like The Godfather.  It's about family business.

There is a lot of non-fiction like #11 The Greatest Salesman in the World: "...find inspiration to become a good salesperson, find inspiration, and believe in yourself."  #14 is How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying and Daniel Radcliffe is on the cover.  #16 is Microserfs about working for Microsoft.

#23 is The Goal.  It's analyzing the "theory of constraints."  Wikipedia says: "...adopts the common idiom "A chain is no stronger than its weakest link" as a new management paradigm. This means that processes, organizations, etc., are vulnerable because the weakest person or part can always damage or break them or at least adversely affect the outcome."

So it looks like my thought of bringing down Wal-Mart is not that ludicrous.  The plan is to get a job there and give bad customer service.  It's so minor, but then I would be the weakest link.

http://www.onlinemba.com/blog/the-25-best-business-novels-to-dig-into-this-summer/

Oct. 30 Blogging: I found this through Freelance Writer emails.  It's how to write the "perfect blog post" like use short paragraphs, and a good title to tell you what it's about.

http://www.360tips.org/2012/03/tips-to-write-perfect-blog-post.html

Oct. 31 Publishing: I've been reading this in the newspaper that Random House and Penguin are going to merge together to create this big publishing giant.

Scotiabank Giller Prize: This was on last night.  It was an hr long on CBC, with Canadian stars introducing the Canadian authors.  The finalists are Will Ferguson, Kim Thuy, Victoria Glendinning, Alix Ohlin, and Russel Wangersky.

The winner is Will Ferguson.  He gave a funny speech and a toast to the written word.

Nov. 4 Post Secret: I found this on it today:

"My TV shows have become my salvation."

I can relate.  It's about the writing, story, characters in it.  Escaping into a different world when watching it.

Sunday, November 11, 2012

flashback/ Values in Action/ community college

Oct. 13 Flashback: I found this sheet of paper I got way back in 2006.  It was when I was laid off from Call Centre #1 and they threw this job fair.  I got a flashback.  I had forgotten to attend it because my dvd Red Eye came in the mail and then I watched it.  After I saw it, I looked at my agenda and see that there was a job fair I could have attended. 

No big deal, because I got a job at an office supply store about a week later.  A month later  I got a job at Call Centre #2, which is also at the job fair.

Some of them were staffing agencies.  If only I had attended, I would have learned my lesson about how staffing agencies are bad sooner.  I learned it in 2008.

Website: On the sheet it said edmontonjobs.ca.  I typed it in and then turned automatically to http://www.oilpatchjobs.ca/

Self-assessment tests:
Sophia Coppolla sent me this really useful article "12 Assessment tests to Enhance your Career." 

http://www.onlinecollege.org/2012/08/26/12-eye-opening-self-assessment-tests-enhance-your-career/

Physical: Some of them were like physical tests like #1 "Computer work station ergonomics test", #3 "Physical Activity Score" and "#10 "Ardell Wellness self-assessment stress test."

Personality: Some of them were personality tests that cost money to get your review like #2 "MBTI for Career Planning" that's $49.  #9 is "Birkam Method" about interpersonal and conflict resolution that's $475.  #12 "Career Anchors" is $40.

#4 is Personalysis.  It does have a good quote: "Success starts with knowing yourself."  The packages are a couple hundred dollars.

Here are the free ones like #5 is the "Job Satisfaction test" with probing questions like: "Think of your top 3 talents.  Does your job utilize those skills?"  The answers could be all the skills, 1 or 2, or none.

#11 is "Motivated Skills" test.  I thought it was an average test.  It doesn't really go in depth.

Values in Action: The best test was this one #7 "Values in Action."  It had 240 questions about character strengths.  There are statements and you either answer: "Very much like me, like me, neutral, not like me, very much not like me."  Here are some statements I agree with:

"I am a true life- long learner."

"I never want things that are bad for me in the long run, even if they make me feel good in the short run." (That's like getting drunk one night, and paying for it the next day with a hangover.  lol.)

There are some about spirituality like: "My faith makes me who I am."

It's free, it gives you the top 5 strengths and then lists all 24.  There is the Option 1 that's $20 that's more in depth.  There's Option 2 and that's $40, even more in depth.

My top strengths were: Judgement, prudence, perseverance, love of learning, and self- regulation.  

Some are optimistic like: "I believe life is more of playground than a battlefield." 
I'm going to collect that in my quotes.  I was neutral on that.

There are statements about appreciating beauty in life and seeing beauty in normal everyday things.  I'm neutral on that.  I go shopping and I like looking at things like clothes, cards, and you can see it as art. 

https://www.viame.org/survey/Account/Login?ReturnUrl=%2fsurvey%2fSurveys%2fShowResults%2f1400688

Entrepreneur: #8 is "The E-Type Test" that asks: "What kind of entrepreneur are you?"  There are 54 questions and are more like what would you prefer?

"Would you rather: help someone understand a subject or understand their feelings?"

My E-type is a communicator/ trainer.  There were some writer jobs like book editor and freelance writer.  There is instructing jobs like tutor and speech coach.

http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/money/smallbusiness/startup/week2-etype-test.htm

Retirement: #6 is bankrate.com that is a retirement planner and calculator and it's useful.

Job blog: I found this in my Freelance Writer's group emails.  It's called Lights Out Telecommunications.  Here's a blog post with celebrity quotes.  There are posts about Linked In like "4 Profile Phrases that will devastate your career."  They're: "results-oriented, driven, team player, and competent."

http://lightsouttelecommunications.wordpress.com/2012/01/31/linkedin-4-profile-phrases-that-will-devastate-your-career/

http://lightsouttelecommunications.wordpress.com/2012/03/13/4-celebrity-quotes-to-balance-your-career/

Oct. 22 Department stores: I was thinking about how Zellers is closing down, because they didn't change to compete.  Even if you hate Wal-Mart, they did change to compete when they started expanding into the grocery store business.  I overheard one of my co-workers at the Call Centre say that Wal-Mart sells their food more expensive and less variety than Safeway, but at least Wal-Mart is is changing.

Safeway is changing too when they put a Starbucks in their store.

Oct. 23 Information technology: Maybe get a career in this industry.

Computer service technician: This is fixing computers.  It's a useful career because you can fix your own and everybody has computers so there's good job security.  I'm not really interested.

http://www.ehow.com/how_2069015_become-computer-service-technician.html

Computer security coordinator: The position is that you plan and monitor computer networks and information.  This is an important job to protect info from hackers.
http://www.mymajors.com/careers-and-jobs/Computer-Security-Coordinator

These computer jobs aren't really for me, I can't be creative in it.

Community college: Emma Taylor sent me this article through my blog called "The New Face of Community College."  It mentioned the sitcom Community about how community college is sub-par education.  

However, these days more people are attending it because it's cheaper than a 4 yr university.  They also teach specialized jobs that are needed.  There are lots of students who attend it for 2 yrs, and then transfer to university.  Kind of Grant MacEwan University's transfer program.

Years ago, MacEwan used to be called "Community College" and then dropped "community" and then became "college."  I had two friends attend CDI College and one took massage therapy and the other an office assistant program.  They both got careers in their fields.  I had one friend go to Norquest College and she got a career in her field too.

I did learn in the article: "Student retention is low at many schools (only 35 to 40% of students graduate within six years), nationally only a fifth of students at community colleges graduate on time, and because of open admission policies, students often aren’t prepared for college-level courses."

This article is set in the US.
http://www.accreditedonlinecolleges.com/blog/2012/the-new-face-of-community-college/

Thursday, November 8, 2012

literary agent/ TV production/ I got published


Oct. 2 Literary agent: I'm researching careers that I could be good at or interested in.  I found how to become a literary agent.  Ehow says:

1. Major in English, journalism, or business.
2. In the US, NYC, Chicago, Dallas, and San Francisco are good cities to be one in.
3. Work your way up in a publishing company.  Develop contacts.
4. Join an established agency.
5. Strike out on your own by opening your own agency.

http://www.ehow.com/how_2121717_become-literary-agent.html

Oct. 3 Blog: Hannah Howard sent me this article "How to Handle Negative Feedback on your Blog."  Don't apologize for what you said.  In some cases you should, but mostly people who rant, it's because they just don't like a lot of things.  Just say "I understand." 

Don't take it personally.  "One thing you have to learn when you put yourself out there for the whole online world to see is that you will not always please everyone. As much as you want to make everyone happy, it just doesn’t work all the time."  Yeah, I know.  It also says to stay calm.

http://www.longhornleads.com/blog/2012/how-to-handle-negative-feedback-on-your-blog/

Oct. 4 New direction: I'm going in another direction.  The other week I didn't look for an office assistant job at all.  Instead, I looked for an agent, and went through my Two Bits Linked In group emails.  Last week I was researching careers.  Now I'm going to look into all communications, publishing industry positions.  CPRS send me these emails and I bookmarked some job ads from them.

Communications strategist: I was going through my bookmarks, and I see this job ad.  I Google it, and it says that they look at how:

"...companies use language and the results they achieve, and they've sought out new ways of making language work better for their clients. That may involve introducing new forms of communication (migrating paper-based memos to email, for example) or it may mean running poetry workshops in law firms, to improve personal communication skills."

"Communication strategy always runs to the heart of a company's internal communications and, ultimately, productivity."
The education is human resources and advertising.
http://www.thewriter.co.uk/news/?id=161

Power Point: Here is a really good Power Point presentation about what a communications strategy does.  This would be used in a business class.
http://www.unescap.org/stat/disability/census-ws/Session5-Media.pdf

Community relations coordinator:
It says: "who works with a business, corporation, or other organization that wants to have a positive public image in the community."
The duties are: "event planning, marketing, and sponsorship of local programs."  That brings me to a flashback of gr. 8 and 9, when I was on the student council.  You have to plan and run dances and school events.

You prepare and deliver speeches, buy ad space, arrange public appearances, contests, etc.
http://www.mymajors.com/careers-and-jobs/Community-Relations-Coordinator


Public relations: This must be the law of attraction, because I was researching the above careers.  I emailed this young woman from college a few weeks ago and asked about the PR program she took at MacEwan.  She gushed about how much she loved it. 
She got hired at the company she interned at and said it was practical, hands on, and what you need to learn to get the job.

Oct. 13 Ingrid Veninger: I was reading the Globe and Mail and Veninger is a film maker.  She has a production company called Punk Films.  She created a contest $1000 Feature Film Challenge where people make a film for $1000.

IV: You don't have to wait for permission from anyone to do your art.  You can put $1000 on your credit card.  You can make a feature that can play festivals and hit the big screen.  And if we can keep costs low enough, we can make money on these films.
http://www.punkfilms.ca/

Freelance Writers: Today is my day off so I was reading the business section of the newspaper and job articles.  Now I'm going through my Freelance Writer's emails I got from the Linked In group.

Alan Kinsberg: I went through 7 emails and found out the TV writer Alan Kinsberg has a Facebook page.  I liked and subscribed to it.

Shawn MacKenzie: I found this blog post about Shawn MacKenzie.  The blog is by Karen S. Elliot.  Here's a good excerpt:

"....'anyone can write' mentality. And while this is true on a certain level, it leaves the field wide open for people with stories to tell but lacking the craft for the telling. A writer is first a craftsman—a wordsmith. Hone your craft if you want your work to soar. To that end, read great books and write, write, write. "

http://karenselliott.wordpress.com/2012/03/16/editor-spotlight-shawn-mackenzie/?goback=.gde_101577_member_101632075

Oct. 15 TV production: I found these notes I took at a job interview at a TV production company.  It was back in May 2012.  The studio was easy to get to.  It was a nice office, and had like 8 staff members and some contract workers.

It doesn't produce dramas, but corporate videos.  The duties were planning, shooting, editing, and delivery.  The position was a jr. account executive.  The job was commission- based.  The shifts were weekend and evenings to see the clients.

There's a little script writing.  It was mainly a sales role.  The clients will call and want a video made for their company.  You have to follow up leads by making phone calls.  Sell $20,000 video and make commission off that.  The set salary was $1000-1500 a month and a little commission.  Eventually it will be 100% commission.

There was some production and post- production.  I learn from people, and there's no book.
They didn't call me back.  There is so much selling involved, I wasn't really looking for a sales role.  I didn't think I was a fit for it, I didn't tell them that.

Oct. 16 Script doctor: I was reading a Screenwriting Goldmine newsletter about being a script doctor.  I Google it and it's really a script consultant.  He is a screenwriter who polishes and edits the scripts for dialogue, characterization, etc.
I did learn this:

"Under the Writers Guild of America screenwriting credit system, a screenwriter must contribute more than 50 percent of an original screenplay or 33 percent of an adaptation to receive credit.[6]"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Script_doctor

Oct. 18 Linked In: A teacher from college added me on Linked In and I accepted.

Nov. 5 I got published: I put this on my Facebook status update.  I got published in the Golden Vanguard.  Here are two of movie reviews Daybreakers and The Fourth Kind.  I will later put the reviews up on my blog.
http://www.thegoldenvanguard.ca/movie-reviews/daybreakers-review

http://www.thegoldenvanguard.ca/movie-reviews/the-fourth-kind

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

mental health/ consumer culture/ teen pregnancy

Nov. 5 Mental health: Yesterday at work was so busy because we had 3 big reservations.  We're all running around, but we made a lot of tips.  Today was very quiet at the restaurant.  I feel different today, but I don't know why.  I didn't have much of an appetite today, so I thought I overate yesterday. 

Today was really warm, it feels like early spring.  Maybe it was daylight savings time, and I got an extra hour of sleep.  I couldn't really concentrate much on my retail holiday job search on the internet.  Then I thought: "I haven't taken my Paxil in a couple of days because I ran out."  Could that be it?  I felt kind of angry today because I get in these moods sometimes.

Today I was finally able to reach my counselor and I would be able to see her for an appointment later.  As soon as I heard her on the phone, I felt good.  I got a boost.

Friends: After that I tried calling all my friends, and I was lucky to have my friend Sherry pick up.  We talked for 35 min.  She told me about some drama at places she worked at and terrible bosses.  She did give me some perspective.  I mentioned that email with the infographic about terrible bosses, and how I didn't really have one. 

Call Centre #3 had a supervisor who told me: "To lie your ass off to get more completed surveys."  Also that one employee from the Soup place who was mean to everybody, and then quit.  I did work at Call Centre #4 for 1 day, and was dismissed because 9 completes wasn't good enough.  Now that I think about it: What if I worked there for a longer time?  Maybe I would realize that the boss there was really terrible.  I didn't get the chance to know that though.      

Sherry told me about how she had a boss, and though she called in sick, the boss was yelling at her to come in because they really needed her.  If she didn't come in, then the boss would write her down like she had quit her job.  So she came in sick.  She did plan to keep working there and save enough money to quit.

Consumer culture: Now that the holiday season has come upon us, I feel like in Canada and the US, we have a very strong consumer culture.  We spend a lot of our times shopping, buying, and talking about what we bought, and what we're going to buy next.

It's not very fulfilling.  I read in the business section of the newspaper about this poll that most people buy things to give them a happy boost.  I was watching this ad on TV about putting stuff out on the curb and having a sign that says "FREE" and you can take whatever.  I see it's like: "So then most people can free up room in their homes, and buy more new stuff and the cycle keeps going."

It's how a lot of people are getting into debt, and not saving for retirement.  I would understand if you are responsible with your money and pay for rent and food, but don't have leftover money to put into retirement.  But if you do have disposable income, save or invest.

Retirement tip: I read in the business section of the newspaper, that you should save for your retirement money right now when you are young.  Don't wait until you're older and put more in.  What if you get sick and can't work as much?  Then you can't make enough money to save.  You can't predict the future, but you can control right here and now and save your money.

Music video: Drake has a video called "Find Your Love" and at the end of it, in big capital letters, each shot has each word that says: FIND. YOUR. LOVE."  In my video, I will say that, but: "SAVE.  YOUR.  MONEY."  lol.

Holidays and gifts:
In my family we don't exchange gifts for each other on Christmas or birthdays.  There are all these events like Father's Day and Mother's Day.  For all these events, we basically either go out for dinner or stay in and have a special dinner to celebrate.

My friend Cham thought up the idea of how we could have a gift exchange of $10 as the limit.  I said no, and that we should save our money.  Rarely do my friends ever give each other gifts.

Gift tip: I have read in the newspaper, a tip to save money for the holidays is that instead of buying a gift for every member of the family, you each buy 1 for each other.  Instead of buying one for your sister, one for your brother, you buy one for your sister, and your brother buys one for you.

Business: Some of you may think: "Well look at you Tracy.  You do write about you shopping at malls."  Yes, but I don't buy anything.  If you read it, I mainly am talking about what I saw.  I often write about new stores opening, and ones that are closing. 

Wal-mart: While I'm at it, Wal-Mart opened at the Meadowlark mall where Zellers used to be.  Wal-Mart took over the Zellers at Northgate mall.

Nov. 6 Teen pregnancy: I have to admit something to you guys.  I got home from work and I wanted to see what's on Dr. Phil.  It's about a teen girl Kayla who got pregnant on  purpose to get on a reality TV show.  I had to watch it because it's about teen pregnancy.  I did get angry when watching it, but I think DP really helped them by the end of it.  I kept my cool.  I didn't yell at the TV.

Here's the story.  Kayla watches 16 and Pregnant and Teen Mom.  Her mom Jill thinks she got pregnant to get on TV.  Jill's boyfriend Mike lives with Jill.  Kayla doesn't like living with Jill and Mike, because she doesn't get along with them, so Kayla lives with her dad.  Kayla did apply to get on 16&P because she was already pregnant, so why not go on a TV show?  She also said that she and her boyfriend didn't like the condoms they had.

DP (to Kayla): You got pregnant because 1, you wanted to get on TV.  2, you wanted to keep your boyfriend.  3, you wanted to have a baby to play with, and show off to your friends.
Kayla does admit that she got pregnant on purpose to keep her boyfriend Vincent.  Judging from the show, it's a little bit of all 3 reasons.

Kayla saw Jenelle on Teen Mom 2 who gave custody of her kid to her mom to take care of.  So Kayla did the same thing because she doesn't have a job, failed out of cosmetology school, doesn't have a license.

Jill has custody of the kid, and is mainly raising it with her boyfriend Mike.  They were the only likeable smart people in this situation.  I really think Jill should have said this to Kayla: "If you want to have the kid and raise it as your own, you need to get your own place to live and get a job."  I think all parents should tell their teen daughters that.  Don't bring a baby home.

There's Kayla's ex-boyfriend Vincent who's a jerk.  He's immature.  He's so cocky about having 5000 friends on Facebook and he's mean.

Vincent's dad Lewis is a jerk too.  Not as much as Vincent.  It was very unintentionally funny when Lewis says to DP: "Let me tell you about responsibility."  The audience laughs at him.  However, Lewis didn't get angry at the audience.  Lewis said Jill was a "f---ing bitch."  He also said to DP's staff that he was going to push Mike to snap on TV.  So the audience and I think Lewis is a mean jerk.  Lewis only home 2 days a month.  There's a step mom to watch Vincent.  He disses Jill and Mike and audience says "ohhh."

Lewis says Vincent is a good dad, and Vincent should have custody.  The judge ruled in Jill's favor because there was only some information there, and not all.  The only redeemable thing about Lewis is that he agrees with Mike that the baby Milo is a gift.

Kayla's adult older sister Stacy: "Kayla called me a bitch when I got pregnant too.  That I was "stealing her thunder.  She and Vincent need to step up."

Kayla is just terrible.  The mom Jill (and her boyfriend Mike agrees) says: "Kayla is being a total bitch.  She's disrespectful.  She had sex with her new boyfriend at 7 months pregnant and got into premature labor.  She slapped me, and kicked me in the stomach when I had recently got abdominal surgery.  She badgers me to get what she wants."  Kayla didn't deny any of that.

Solutions:

DP: Somebody needs to speak for Milo. 
The audience cheers.

Kayla: I gave my mom custody because I'm not in school, don't have a job or car.  What could I give Milo?
DP: You can love him, nurture him, feed him, etc.
The audience cheers.

DP (to Kayla): You need to grow up.  

DP (to Vincent): You need to keep your pants zipped up slick.  You're showing off your maturity by smart mouthing me.
The audience cheers.

DP (to Vincent's dad Lewis): Stop being resentful. 

DP (to Kayla and Vincent): You don't need to have a relationship to be parents.  I will give you parenting classes, and help you get a job.

Tips:


DP: Teen pregnancy is not one conversation.  It's an ongoing dialogue to tell your teen daughter.

1. Value your body and not use it for entertainment.  Value yourself.  Don't say no for your mom or your dad.  Say no for yourself.

2. If she "loves" the boy, don't put him in the "Teen Daddy" box.  You change somebody's life too.

3. Statistics say that teen fathers will not be there for the baby.  If you a teen dad who takes care of your kid, good for you.  It's the the teen girl and her family who will take responsibility.