Friday, June 20, 2025

"Woman goes viral after hiding cash inside baby formula packets in divisive ‘She Deserved the Purse’ trend"/ "Utah mother diagnosed with Stage 4 small cell lung cancer, given 3 months to live"

Sept. 26, 2024 "Woman goes viral after hiding cash inside baby formula packets in divisive ‘She Deserved the Purse’ trend": Today I found this article by Ellie Muir on the Independent.  I like this article because it's about charity and good deeds.  

However, there were unintended consequences.  You should donate directly to the charities like the Food Bank.


A woman has gone viral after filming herself secretly hiding cash inside baby formula packets at supermarkets.

TikTok creator Tabitha Swatosh is just one of the influencers who have gone viral after taking part in the divisive viral online trend called “She deserved the purse”, which sees big-name creators secretly hide cash inside baby products in the hope that struggling parents will find it.

In a recent video, Swatosh filmed herself visiting her local Target and stuffing up to $50 inside packaging for items like nappies, detergent and formula.

Swatosh said online she wanted to “pay it forward” and “leave a couple of little things” in her local grocery store in the hope that a “mother or father who are struggling right now gets them”.

While creators taking part in the trend have been praised for their “heartwarming” acts of kindness, 

the trend has been widely criticised after reports of people visiting the stores identified in the videos in search of the hidden money.

One TikTok user said online they had visited their local Walmart and “formula cans were literally torn open”. The Independent has contacted Walmart and other supermarkets pictured in these videos for comment.

“Went to Walmart today and ALL of the boxes were open. I asked for an unopened box from the back. The worker said they have been watching the cameras on who has been opening stuff and not buying it.”

Others have been critical of influencers who document their acts of kindness for likes or “clout”.

“If people wouldn’t have posted on TikTok for the clout, it would have worked,” they said of the trend. 

“But these people need others to see them ‘helping.’”

Another chimed: “That’s why its good to do good deeds quietly.”

“The trend was a good idea until big creators started posting about it for clout. Integrity is doing the right thing when no one’s watching.”

The “She deserved the purse” trend began with a viral photo shared by TikTok user Danesha Gonzalez, which showed a discarded purse in a supermarket’s baby section.

Gonzalez captioned it “she deserved the purse” to point towards that sacrifices that mothers make for their children, and people interpreted the storyline behind the picture as being about a mother who sacrificed a luxury for herself – a new purse – for her child. 

The photo gained over 20 million views and has been turned into the wider video trend.

Speaking online, Swatosh told her followers that she was inspired to take part in the trend to help parents in need of extra support.

“I felt inspired to do this because when I was little my parents divorced. They were single young parents trying to raise three kids and my little brother wasn’t even one year’s old yet,” she said.

Creator Abbie Herbert, who has 15.6 million followers on the platform, told followers she visited Walmart and other stores after seeing influencers doing the same.

“Thank u to all the other creators starting this trend. I’ll be doing this every time I shop,” she said, sharing a video of her hiding cash underneath boxes of nappies.

When followers raised the issue of people rifling through packaging to find the cash, she wrote: “I kept the $ visibly seen. Nothing was hidden. No one needs to open anything. I hope the $ makes it to a parent in need.”

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/she-deserved-the-purse-tiktok-meaning-b2619334.html


Sept. 27, 2024 "Utah mother diagnosed with Stage 4 small cell lung cancer, given 3 months to live": Today I found this article by Ryan Bittan on Yahoo:


UPDATE 9/29 — Over the weekend, Erika Carr’s GoFundMe broke $1 million, even though her original goal for the fundraiser was $5,000.

ORIGINAL STORY

OGDEN, Utah (ABC4) — An Ogden mother who has been fighting for life after being diagnosed with a rare terminal cancer has now been given three months to live, and she’s decided to spend it with her kids. People across the country have rallied around her, donating over $750,000 to her GoFundMe, which had an original goal of only $5,000.

Erika Carr, 30, is a single mother of two children — Jeremiah, 7, and Aaliyah, 5. She calls them her “whole life, light and soul … and what keeps [her] going.”

On May 7, 2022, Carr was diagnosed with Stage 4 small cell lung carcinoma, a “high-grade neuroendocrine carcinoma,” she stated on her GoFundMe. Her diagnosis came the day before Mother’s Day, and she’s been battling for her life for over two years now.

Doctors told her, “I hope you have a good support system at home because you’re going to need it, you have a long and hard journey ahead of you.”

Her condition had improved — positive scans giving her the opportunity to stop treatment and see how she progressed. During this time, on Jan. 17, 2024, she developed Cushing’s syndrome — a rare hormonal disorder that occurs when the body is exposed to too much cortisol for an extended period. 

It has had a multitude of difficult impacts on her body, including rapid weight gain and swelling, muscle and bone deterioration, high blood pressure, and Type 2 diabetes.

Though she restarted treatment, on Sept. 18, 2024, doctors told her that she had three months to live. She’s chosen to discontinue treatment and spend that time cherishing her two children.

Carr’s been given the seemingly impossible task of planning her own funeral, and she decided to create a GoFundMe to help cover the costs. She set a modest goal, asking for only $5,000, hoping that maybe she’d be able to leave some extra money behind for her children.

She has since received over $750,000.

There have been over 26,000 donations given to her cause. She’s now created a trust fund, and she’s thankful her children will be okay when they grow up.

“It happened overnight. I never expected that,” she told ABC4. “I never expected to have a big funeral service, or a lot of people reach out and help me. With the way it’s went, I’m just in shock … just very grateful for everybody and everything that’s been there.”

Carr’s GoFundMe can be found here.

Renisha Mall contributed to reporting.

Copyright 2024 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/utah-mother-diagnosed-stage-4-051354090.html


The other 2 blog posts of the week:


"Genetic testing firm 23andMe files for bankruptcy"/ "What happens to your DNA data now that 23andMe has filed for bankruptcy?"

https://badcb.blogspot.com/2025/06/genetic-testing-firm-23andme-files-for.html


"Bankrupt 23andMe’s DNA data gets nod for sale as concerns linger"/ "Bankrupt DNA testing company 23andMe to be bought by Regeneron"

https://badcb.blogspot.com/2025/06/bankrupt-23andmes-dna-data-gets-nod-for.html


My week:

Wed. Jun. 18 Leo poll:

Cindy S, Sainte barbe, Quebec, would like to know:

What kind of books do you like to read?

Novels    31.87% (1510)

Mystery    23.62% (1119)

Other    23.09% (1094)

Non-fiction    12.11% (574)

Sci-fi    9.31% (441)


My opinion: Non- fiction.



Thurs. Jun. 19, 2025:

Our Partner MoneySense would like to know:

What minimum household income do you need to be “comfortable” in Canada?

$100,000     37.33% (1658)

$74,200 (median Canadian salary, according to latest data from StatCan)    

25.06% (1113)

$150,000    24.74% (1099)

$200,000    8.22% (365)

$250,000+ (top tax bracket in Canada)    4.66% (207)


My opinion: $74,200.


Fri. Jun. 20, 2025:

Valerie L, Campbellton , New-Brunswick, would like to know:

What concerns you the most about the future?

The economy and cost of living    46.84% (2068)

International conflicts    20.07% (886)

Climate change    16.85% (744)

The future of younger generations    12.80% (565)

Other    3.44% (152)




My opinion: The economy and cost of living.



Wed. Jun. 18 Community League meeting: This will be the last one for a few months because we take a break during the summer.

This was held outdoors like last year.  It didn't rain, though it was cloudy.

We had pizza and salad from the Birch and Bear:

I like the chicken and potato one because of the sauce.

The Bear- Meat Lovers

Capicola and Sambal Pineapple

Caesar salad




I also talked to Elizabeth about a book swap.  We had a clothing swap and there were a lot of people attended that.  They said there was a game swap before.  


Thurs. Jun. 19, 2025 Trivia night: This was at my work from 6-8 pm.  There is a laptop and a big screen TV together.

We logged into https://jackbox.tv/ with our smartphones.

I borrowed a smartphone.

There are 8 players.

The questions are all topics:

School:

math
science
history
geography
English
mythology

Pop culture:

TV and movies
Actors
Singers

I won the first round with 20,000 points.  The 2nd place was Alisa with 400.

There was a 2nd round and it was written.  21 questions.  Jaswinder got 13 right.

I got 7.5 right.

The menu:

Vegetarian spring rolls with plum sauce

Spicy cactus cut chips with dill sauce

Nacho chips with hummus

Chocolate cake

Peach cake with strawberry sauce

People took leftovers of the cake slices.  I took the leftover cactus chips.

The others played 2 more rounds.

There were board games and free books and magazines.  I picked up this free book:


Dial A for Aunties by Jesse Q. Sutanto:

When Meddelin Chan ends up accidentally killing her blind date, her meddlesome mother calls for her even more meddlesome aunties to help get rid of the body. Unfortunately, a dead body proves to be a lot more challenging to dispose of than one might anticipate, especially when it is inadvertently shipped in a cake cooler to the over-the-top billionaire wedding Meddy, her Ma, and aunties are working at an island resort on the California coastline. It's the biggest job yet for the family wedding business—"Don't leave your big day to chance, leave it to the Chans!"—and nothing, not even an unsavory corpse, will get in the way of her auntie's perfect buttercream flowers.

But things go from inconvenient to downright torturous when Meddy's great college love—and biggest heartbreak—makes a surprise appearance amid the wedding chaos. Is it possible to escape murder charges, charm her ex back into her life, and pull off a stunning wedding all in one weekend?

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