Teen Pregnancy Trap/ Jamie Lynn Spears/ Teen Mom 2

Apr. 27 Teen Pregnancy Trap: This is also about the Dr. Phil ep I saw on Apr. 24.  The other half was about a teen mom named Lauren.  She was 17 yrs old when she had Kayla.  When Kayla turned 2, Lauren gave Kayla to her mom to raise.  Kayla: My mom abandoned me.  At 12 yrs old, Kayla moved back in with Lauren. Lauren: I didn't abandon her.  I needed a break.  My mom offered to take care of her. Dr. P: You came back 10 yrs later. Lauren: I was on and off 10 yrs to see her. Kayla is biracial, and Lauren is white. Kayla: If I had a kid, I would never abandon her like my mom did. Lauren: I found wine bottles in her room and my brother saw her buy a pregnancy test. Kayla (to Dr.P): I drink sometimes, it's rare.  I have sex with my boyfriend. They mentioned an incident back when Myspace was popular.  (Probably like 2006.)  They got into a fight at midnight.  Lauren needed help with her Myspace page and Kayla had school the next day.  Lauren pushed Kayla and there was blood on Kayla's foot.  A woman who lived downstairs heard it and called 911. Kayla: I want to spend time with my mom.  Lauren: I want a close relationship with my daughter. Kayla: You only talk to me when you're drunk. Lauren: You're always like "Yeah, what do you want?" Kayla: So you're the same. May 15: They showed where Kayla is talking to the camera. Kayla: I love her.  I act out because I'm in pain. Lauren: I'm not perfect.  I wish I could go back and things would be different. They're both crying on the show. Dr. Phil (to Lauren): Stop making excuses. Dr. Phil (to Kayla): Don't be stupid.  Don't go drinking and get pregnant.  Don't waste your life. Tips: Dr. Phil closes with some tips to prevent teen pregnancy. 1. Be clear about your sexual values. 2. Help your teen have more options than to get pregnant. 3. Be aware that a 14 yr old girl dating an 18 yr old boy is very different.  Their mind sets are like day and night. Yearbook: I found this on Yahoo news.  This teen mom was holding her baby boy in her yearbook photo.  Most students held a pet or a musical instrument.  School officials are now saying this photo is promoting teen pregnancy.  The student Caitlin Tiller did graduate out of high school early, and is working 30hrs a week while taking college classes. The comments are divided like: "The photo should be banned.  She should have gave the baby up for adoption."  The others are like: "Don't punish her for one mistake." http://ca.shine.yahoo.com/blogs/shine-on/oh-baby-boy-north-carolina-teen-mom-photo-173749179.html Jamie Lynn Spears: Today I was reading this Glamour magazine, and they talked to Jamie Lynn Spears, Britney Spears's litte sister.  She got pregnant when she was 16 yrs old back in 2008.  She went away and now she's 21 yrs old.  She got pregnant, had a baby girl and was engaged to the father Casey Alridge.  They later separated and in the article she says he sees her one weekend a month. She is currently engaged to another guy who isn't the baby's father since Mar 2013.  She got pregnant because she was scared to go to the doctor and was embarrassed to ask to be put on birth control.  If you want more info, go here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jamie_Lynn_Spears Teen Mom 2: I saw the season 4 Check Up with Dr. Drew.  It didn't get me angry. Jenelle: She was crying over the domestic violence between her and boyfriend Gary.  Gary has now been kicked out of the marines.  She discussed about the terrible side effects with heroin.  I think it scared and taught a lot of viewers about the dangers of the drug.  She tried it and she was throwing up every 5 min.  She went to the hospital 3 different times and only did the drug because of her boyfriend Kieffer. Jenelle: I felt like I was going to die.  Keiffer is selling stories to the tabloids that I'm a horrible person.  I never injected the drugs/ heroin before.  Keiffer did it to me.  I don't know how to inject it into myself. She calls her mom Barbara for help. Barbara (crying): I thought she would be dead. Kailyn: She talks to Dr. Drew about how much she disapproves her ex-boyfriend/ baby's daddy Jo's girlfriend Vee. Kailyn: Vee smokes weed out of a gas mask and puts it on the internet.  I'm not going to allow someone to smoke or drink around my son.  I'm protecting my only family.  (She starts crying.) Dr. Drew: You need to meet her. Kailyn: I can't, I'm not ready for it. Kailyn got married to Javi. Jo: I haven't spent much time with Javi, I don't know him. They discussed the whole custody issue when Kailyn may move to Javi's army base. Kailyn and Vee meet on the show. Vee: I have never done anything intentionally to make you not like me.  I know what not to do in front of kids.  I work at a daycare.  I'm studying to be a teacher. Kailyn: You can smoke, drink, do drugs, but don't post pictures of it on the internet. Dr. Drew: Do you feel it's safe to judge someone after one picture? Dr. Drew got Kailyn angry by asking that question, and she gets up and walks away in a huff. Vee actually cries about the stress of dating a teen dad.  Vee kind of becomes sympathetic here. Vee: It's hard, but at the end of the day, it's worth it because Jo is a great guy. Kailyn comes back with Javi. Kailyn: I felt like I was being attacked. Dr. Drew: I didn't mean to attack you, that was not my intention. Chelsea:  Dr. Drew asks about how she almost got pregnant again with using the "pull out method." Dr. Drew: Why didn't you take the morning after pill the next day? Chelsea: I assumed I wasn't pregnant. They talk about how she doesn't have a boyfriend. Chelsea: I thought (ex-boyfriend) Adam was rubbing in my face that he's so happy with his girlfriend Taylor.  (My daughter) Aubree said "She (Taylor) took a shower with her."  Maybe Aubree meant she was given a bath. Adam comes on and says he and Taylor gave Aubree a bath.  Adam is swearing.  Chelsea says she and Adam have been hooking up for the past month.Chelsea's dad Randy comes on and discuss of the cycle where they hook up, and then don't talk for a few weeks.  Then it goes again. Chelsea: We all know what the cycle is, and it's not right. They discuss Adam's court order to see Aubree.  Chelsea does let Adam see Aubree most of the time, unless it's last minute and she already made plans to do something with Aubree.  Randy is in contact with Adam's parents.  Adam talks to parents about co-parenting and how he and Chelsea are never going to date again.  Leah: All the teen moms cried, except Leah.  She says she's pregnant and she did give birth after this aired.  Her husband Jeremy is gone 6 days a week for work, but Leah has a lot of family support so she can take care of her twin girls and a baby. Leah: When the kids go to school, I will go to college. Leah: I'm proud of the person I am now. Her daughter Ali who's legs are not totally developed, she is now able to walk.  Leah's ex-boyfriend Corey now has a girlfriend and she moved in with him.  They talked about child support. Corey: I was used to giving $400 a month, and now it's $800.  It was a shock.  I got lawyers so I wanted to make sure I won't be screwed over, but I did end up getting screwed over. There were a few laughs. Dr. Drew: 12% of teen moms have an arrangement of getting child support.