Tuesday, April 4, 2017

"Why we fail the to-do list"/ "Cut the crap- a leader's priority"

Jan. 7, 2017 "Why we fail the to-do list": Today I found this article by Harvey Schachter in the Globe and Mail:

Ta-da! To do. Ta-da! We usually add to our daily to-do list with some internal fanfare because it’s supposedly the secret to productivity. But we are hit-and-miss on actually completing those tasks. Indeed, research by IdoneThis, which sells progress-tracking software, found that 41 per cent of todo items are never completed.

The research offered other insights on our to-do struggles. Fifty per cent of completed to-do items are done within a day. Indeed, 18 per cent are done within an hour and 10 per cent within a minute. So time is not necessarily the secret to getting them done.

Also of interest: Only 15 per cent of the things that people accomplish start as planned to-do items. That means most of what is accomplished – 85 per cent – is never even on the list.

Janet Choi, chief creative officer at the firm, sums up the finding in three sentences worth pondering since it may speak about your own life as well. People aren’t that great at completing their to-do tasks. Tasks that get completed are done quickly. Tasks that are reported as done don’t correlate with planned to-do.

Further probing found that most people put too many things on their to-do list. That just creates worry and, ironically, reduced productivity. “So the to do list gives and takes. We have so much to tackle and a to-do list helps us remember everything. At the same time, it’s a nagging tool that can induce unhealthy and disarming anxiety. Do the cons of a to-do list outweigh the pros if we’re not ultimately getting everything done?” she writes on the firm’s blog.

The source of the anxiety is less about the goal and more about the specifics of how we will proceed. So we are constructing ineffective to do lists, indicating the final outcomes rather than the next step.

We also give ourselves too much time to complete the items. Research shows the more time we give ourselves to finish something, the less likely it is that we will finish in that time frame.

Finally, the future is full of unknowns. That not only contributes to not achieving our to-do goals, but explains why so much of what we accomplish is never on the list. Life happens; we react.

The IdoneThis software originally had a to-do list but the company jettisoned it to focus on Done Lists. But she says the to-do list still can be helpful if you counter the shortcomings:

Make more specific, actionable plans: Avoid general items such as, “Write report.” Instead, list the first step, such as, “Research client history.” At the same time, she warns against micro-managing your tasks, or you’ll feel locked in and unable to make adjustments and respond to things that come up; Use a technique called “implementation intention” in your planning. Essentially, this involves if-then processes – if something happens, you will act in a certain way;

Give yourself early deadlines: Behavioural economist Dan Ariely found that even if the deadlines are self-imposed rather than by an outside authority, you are more likely to perform better than people with later deadlines.

Finally, “Record and celebrate your dones, and let that motivation push you to tackle the next day’s or week’s tasks,” she advises.

Ta da! Excerpted from Harvey Schachter’s Power Points column, which is posted to tgam.ca/careers each Friday.



Mar. 3, 2017 "Cut the crap: A leader’s priority": Today I found this article by Roy Osing in the Globe and Mail:

Most leaders focus on creating a winning future for their organization; developing a strategic game plan that will beat their competitors and grow their business.


The priority is on doing something new; innovating to bring new capabilities to the organization and to attack new markets with cutting-edge technology.

The challenge is, however, that the new stuff is generally piled on the existing work portfolio and is treated as incremental to current resource commitments.

"How are we going to pay for the new strategy?" is the question that is invariably posed.

Dealing only with the new is a failure of leadership. If a new strategy development process does not deal with the crap that needs to be eliminated, that strategy could fail.

A new direction cannot be effectively pursued if elements of the old plan continue to draw resources of the organization.

There are simply not sufficient resources and bandwidth to do it all, and even if you did, the past will create inertia that will prevent you from moving to a new place.

A "cut the crap" analysis must be treated as a fundamental part of the strategy-building process and must be a vital ingredient of the new strategy's execution plan.

What current projects and activities are no longer necessary? How can they be eliminated? What resources can be made available to reallocate to new strategy from crap activities?

Create a crap list and make it long; create a keep list and make it small. The general tendency is towards the opposite, as people go to great ends to justify continuing what they are currently working on.

Make it extremely difficult to retain crap. Subject each crap item to rigorous review before deciding to keep it. Remember crap represents potential resources for getting on with new projects.

And beware of those who possess the crap.

These custodians of the past are employees who are comfortable handling past activities; they enjoy them and they don't want to change.

They are managers of irrelevance and are critical to the crap-elimination process. If they are permitted to continue to do their thing, they will infect others in the organization and prevent them from adopting the new direction.

Identify these folks and manage them either into another assignment or, if they are unwilling to accept a new role, exit them with dignity.

Designate a “cut the crap” champion for the task. Make it a senior person in the organization that has the tenacity, perseverance and currency with employees to give the job the credibility it deserves.

Charge this person to make it happen and make it a critical component of their performance and compensation plan. Review their progress regularly and communicate results to the organization.

Make it matter to everyone. When someone declares they don't have the resources to execute the new direction, ask them how much crap they have eliminated.

Leaders should be more responsible for eliminating the unproductive; crap and vision should carry the same weight.

Roy Osing (@RoyOsing), former executive vice-president of Telus, is a blogger, educator, coach, adviser and the author of the book series, Be Different or Be Dead.

"Monday to Friday without a frown"/ "Mommy, daddy, welcome to my desk"

Mar. 7, 2017 "Monday to Friday without a frown":  I found this article by Sidneyeve Matrix in the Metro on Apr. 16, 2014:


One of the main reasons people switch jobs is a disconnect between their personal goals and the company values.

A professional position misfit leaves you feeling unappreciated and undervalued, every day.

This isn’t just about being in a mild state of discomfort.

Research shows being unhappy at work results in more stress, causes a hit to your self-esteem, and interferes with your professional competence.

According to a new report on job satisfaction, millennials (think 20- and 30-somethings) are particularly concerned with having a job that authentically fits who they are. But many people don’t find that perfect job right away.

Researchers at CreativeLive discovered that a third of currently employed Gen Y work- ers wish they could jump the corporate ship to find a workplace where they could be surrounded with more creative people. Another third would happily take a salary cut if they could find a job with the opportunities to do meaningful work that has a positive social impact.

At the younger end of the Gen Y cohort, a 2014 survey of 15,000 undergraduate students and new grads showed that finding one’s place in a company with the right “people and culture fit” is the number one consideration for millennial job seekers. So how to get the right custom career fit?

A yond happiness, working with friends may result in a productivity boost. Researchers at the London School of Economics found that employees worked harder and got 10 per cent more accomplished in jobs where they worked with friends, especially if those pals were industrious types.

Creativity: Blog your career

“I think having a blog is a great way of showing employers what you can do before you even get to the interview stage,” said Rachel Davies, a new graphic design grad from Nottingham Trent University in the U.K. “I definitely think my blog helped me get my internship.”

Indeed, “you have to be willing to show who you are,” advises Shara Senderoff, founder of InternSushi. Having a blog focused on your industry (trends, news, debates, case studies) communicates volumes to a recruiter about your professional ambitions, creative thinking and skills.

Plus, “it shows them you’re more likely to understand their company’s values,” advises Lynn Finn, an HR pro from the University of Northampton.

In an era of social screening, recruiters will always Google you, and having a great blog can work to “stack the deck in your favour,” advises Liz Lynch, author of Smart Networking. “If you’re competing with someone who has equal skills and experience,” Lynch says, “a blog can be the tie-breaker.”



"Mommy, Daddy, welcome to my desk": I found this article in the Metro on Nov. 10, 2014: 

Seta Whitford-Stark was dumbfounded last year when she found out her daughter Amy quit her job at an employee-recruiting agency to work for LinkedIn, an Internet company that Seta had never heard of. Amy tried to explain what the online professional networking service did, but Seta couldn’t quite grasp the concept or why the 29-year-old would want to work there.

“Oh my God, what has she gotten herself into?” Whitford-Stark, now 73, recalls muttering to herself.

Then she got to observe Amy and her colleagues in action at LinkedIn Corp.’s New York office and came away with a much better understanding of her daughter’s career.

Whitford-Stark participated in Bring In Your Parents Day, joining thousands of parents at companies around the globe in an event that gives workers a rare opportunity to showcase the cultural and technological changes that have trans formed the modern workplace.

Conceived by LinkedIn last year, more than 50 companies and other organizations in 16 countries are now embracing this generational spin on the take- the-kids-to-work craze that began a couple of decades ago.

Companies realize that some parents who once tried to enlighten their kids by letting them tag along at work may be confused about what their now-adult children do.

“The first reaction when you hear about this is, ‘Really, bring your parents to work? Is that really something you should be doing?” says LinkedIn Corp. CEO Jeff Weiner. But it makes sense, he says, once you have given it a try.

“Once you have done it and see how meaningful it is, it helps us all speak a common language in terms of how the world is working today.”

Joe Hirz, 65, was pleasantly surprised by how much freedom LinkedIn’s workers seemed to have while he accompanied his daughter, Jill Hirz-Jones, to LinkedIn’s inaugural parent’s day at the company’s Mountain View, Calif. headquarters.

It was a stark difference to his 45-year career as an auto mechanic, a job that required him to account for his whereabouts and activity virtually every minute of his shift.

Getting an inside glimpse of LinkedIn also gave Joe, who didn’t have a television set at home until he was 10 years old, a better understanding of how technology has changed the way people find jobs today.

More than 332 million people have set up profiles on LinkedIn pages where they share their career accomplishments, turning the service into a popular way to connect employers with talented workers.

“In my era, jobs came through word of mouth from your friends or in classified ads in newspapers,” Joe says. “Now, it seems like you can get information almost immediately on a phone, including finding a job just about anywhere in the world.”

Jill, 29, says it’s now much easier to discuss work with her dad after last year’s visit gave him a window into her corporate communications job.

“For him, working in a garage, communications meant speaking really loudly so everyone could hear him,” Jill says. “Now, it’s easier for him to understand when I am talking about a challenge on our communications team.”

Some companies participating in Bring In Your Parents Day may be motivated by more than enlightening parents, says Brad Sago, a Wheaton College professor of business and management who specializes in generation-gap issues.

“Getting parents on their team is another way for companies to build brand equity,” says Sago. “They are creating a company advocate, which is important because these parents are still influential in many children’s lives.”

As an advertising executive, Stoddart is unabashed in his desire to sell parents on the merits of working at Leo Burnett.

“We want our best employees to stay with us and parent advice is often involved in some of those big career decisions,” Stoddart says. “So, it’s OK with me if a parent says, ‘Gee, I love that place, Leo Burnett. Why are you looking around?’”

"Why resilience is a crucial workplace skill"

Mar. 28, 2016 "Why resilience - the cornerstone of 'psychological capital' is a crucial workplace skill": I cut out this article by Richard Blackwell in the Globe and Mail on Dec. 13, 2013.  It's about psychology which I like.  It's also motivational because people experience hardships and they will come out mentally and emotionally stronger:


It is pretty straightforward for companies to evaluate the skills and experience that a new employee will bring to his or her job. But it is much harder to assess that person's attitude and approach to work, and predict how they will react when they face challenges. These personal traits and attitudes - known as "psychological capital" - are key to employee performance, and help foster a happy and healthy workplace, says Jamie Gruman, an associate professor of organizational behaviour at the University of Guelph, who spoke recently at a health and wellness conference in Toronto.

What is the "psychological capital" that you suggest employees bring to their jobs?

People tend to be familiar with intellectual capital, which is what people know; and social capital, which is who they know. Psychological capital is who you are, or who you are becoming. It is made up of four personal resources: hope, optimism, confidence and resilience. Together they represent the character of an individual. There is a growing amount of research showing that employees who have psychological capital perform better and are more productive.

How can employees and employers beef up psychological capital?

There have been studies that show you can increase it. For example, one of the best things to do to build confidence is to practise something and get better at it. If you have newcomers in an organization, give them something you know they are going to do well, then something a little bit harder, and then something a little bit harder. Before you know it, they are doing something that three or four weeks ago they didn't think they could possibly do.

Employees can also take the initiative to try to become more confident. They can volunteer for something they don't know how to do, something relatively easy. Then, next time, volunteer to take on something a little more challenging.

Isn't it difficult for people to be optimistic when there are so many cutbacks and layoffs in the workplace?

You are right, but one of the components of psychological capital is resilience. In a crazy environment like the one we have currently, it is that much more important. If you have a resilient work force, and there is a downsizing or you get bought out, people have the personal resources that allow them to manage that change and to not crumble.

How do you train people to be more resilient?

It is the one element of psychological capital that develops out of the other three. If you focus on building people's confidence, optimism and hope, they become more resilient.

But there are ways to build resilience. It involves removing threats to people that are unnecessary. When people are starting a new job, don't force them to do things you know are going to cause them anxiety. Let them handle that later on. That removes some of the pressures that might cause them to want to leave.

Are positive employees always better workers?

Not always. We tend to think of optimism as desirable and pessimism as undesirable, but it depends on the employee.

Some people say, "I am not so sure how I am going to perform here. If I don't do well, here is what I am going to do." They think through the implications of what they are going to do if they don't perform well. This is called defensive pessimism, and research shows that people who are defensively pessimistic can perform just as well as people who are optimistic.

Certainly, there are lots of very pessimistic and cynical journalists, who are good at their jobs and very successful.

People who are in a good mood tend to be very creative, and think very broadly. But they are not as good at scrutinizing detail as people who are in a bad mood. People who are cynical or pessimistic are probably drawn to journalism for that reason - they are not satisfied with the status quo, and they are very good at seeing the little details that don't quite fit with the total story.

How important is stress in making people feel positive or negative about their work?

It depends on the kind of stress. Some stressors are motivating because you can handle them, while others are debilitating because you can't.

Not all stressors are negative. One of the things that we find is that people who suffer moderate amounts of stress early in their careers become more resilient later on. So it is not beneficial to avoid all stressors in your life, because you don't build yourself up that way. It is like not being exposed to germs when you are a kid, and then you have a weak immune system.

What is the best way to ensure you have a positive frame of mind at work?

The most important thing is to recognize that life is short and precious and fragile. You need to appreciate that you have a roof over your head and it hasn't just been hit by a typhoon. You need to appreciate what you have, while you have it, because most of it is going to disappear at some point.

Imagine someone, in a wheelchair, who after 20 years of not being able to walk, suddenly stands up. That would be glorious. Well, you know what? I can stand up now. That is a wonderful thing. That understanding is vital for living a good life.

This interview has been edited and condensed.


"The science behind persuading people": I cut out this article by Parminder Bahra in the Globe and Mail on Jan. 5, 2013.  He writes for the Wall Street Journal.  This is also about psychology:

One of the most crucial skills to improving your career in the new year may be the ability to persuade people to see things your way.

Social norms can play an important role in getting customers, colleagues and businesses to do the things you'd like them to do—such as making a particular purchase or agreeing to your position over a deal, says behavior expert Steve Martin, author of a book on the science of persuasion, "Yes! 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to Be Persuasive."

"The advertising industry was crafting appeals on the basis of consumers' desire to fit in long before the 'Mad Men' era," Mr. Martin says. "But many businesses are only now beginning to experiment with social norms as a tool to drive profits."

Mr. Martin, who heads the U.K. office of the consultancy Influence at Work, has used a handful of simple persuasion strategies with large corporations and government agencies in the U.K. to influence the behavior of customers and citizens. The strategies make use of simple messages that can generate significant returns with changes that are virtually costless.

Among the strategies, tapping into a social norm to create consensus is a powerful tool that gets people to follow the behavior of others. Managers should try to identify what the consensus view is in a workplace and think about what messages will convince others to join the consensus.

An example of the power of consensus messaging is the use of information cards in hotel rooms. The number of customers who reused their towels increased by 26% when information cards in hotel rooms read "75% of customers who stay in this hotel reuse their towels," according to research conducted by Robert Cialdini, Mr. Martin's co-author and founder of Influence at Work in Tempe, Ariz. The reusage rate increased by 33% when the cards' message read: "75% of people who stayed in this room reused their towels."

Location and personalization are important because they draw an even closer association between the customer and those you want them to imitate. Mr. Martin adds that managers can use a "test and learn" approach to determine social norms. Start with small groups or locations, test messages and then assess whether there is a social norm to tap into.

Another strategy, which Mr. Martin calls "reciprocity," takes advantage of people's desire to respond when they feel they owe someone something. Research published in the Journal of Applied Social Psychology found that a diner is more likely to tip a waiter if the bill comes with a piece of candy, for example.

Framing a choice as leading to a potential loss rather than a gain—thereby creating a sense of stress—can also be a tool for managers. Mr. Martin describes a study in which a group of executives were presented with a proposal for an information-technology project. Twice as many in the group approved the proposal if the company was predicted to lose $500,000 if the proposal wasn't accepted, compared with a scenario that predicted the project would lead to a profit of $500,000. Managers should look at the message they are sending. Could a stronger argument be made by describing the opportunity costs rather than just the benefits?

Mr. Martin finds that favorable outcomes almost double when we identify common ground with the other party in a negotiation. Find similarities between you and your customer—such as the car you drive or the age of your kids—and express them before you start negotiating with them over a contract or a price, he advises.

"Influence isn't an art," says Mr. Martin, "there's over 60 years of research and evidence that shows how we can effectively move people. My advice would be to learn the science."


My week:



Mar. 30, 2017 Spring break: This week at work was really busy because it was spring break.

Jon Gosselin Confirms He’s Performing as a Stripper in Atlantic City, Calls It ‘a Blessing’: Here is some light and fun news.  I'm not really a fan of him or his reality TV show.  My sister watched it and I was on the computer and listening to it.  I don't find that reality show to be offensive or trashy.  Here's the news:

Jon Gosselin -- reality star, father of eight, DJ and… stripper?
It's true. After rumors began swirling that the former Jon & Kate Plus 8 star was going to perform as a male entertainer in Atlantic City, New Jersey, Gosselin, 39, confirmed the news to ET on Saturday.

"I work at Dusk Nightclub in Atlantic City, New Jersey. I'm a member of the Senate DJ group and I also help with Promotion," he explained. "I DJ at the club sometimes, but I find promotion is more rewarding both financially and emotionally. I like taking care of people and making others feel welcome."

Gosselin also revealed he's performing in the nightclub's Men Untamed Revue Show, exclusively telling ET his first night is April 1st.

https://ca.yahoo.com/news/exclusive-jon-gosselin-confirms-hes-160000472.html

Social media star exposes truth behind lingerie shoots: You can really see the difference between good and bad here:

Megan Crabbe, 24, wants to uncover the dramatic difference between a “polished and unpolished” photoshoot. The kicker? Her side-by-side snapshots are both stunning in their own respect.

The body positive blogger and model, who wears a size 14 (or XL), took to Instagram sharing a series of before-and-after boudoir-style photos. Her posts succeed in revealing just how staged professional shoots can be — and also remind us to credit ourselves in our natural state.

MCS 3 hours ago               
I think people put too much importance on their appearance... always looking for affirmation from strangers and others around them. Honestly give it up!!!! Can't you just be you without having to be patted on the head? fat, skinny who cares. just be good people and focus on important things... instead of dying your hair a weird colour and taking selfies every second of the day to prove to the world that you exist. it's getting old and pathetic! I'd love for these social media stars to take a challenge.... stay off the internet for 1 week!


Nancy Cartwright shocks teen with Bart Simpson impression: It was about The Simpsons, and I love that show, so of course I had to watch it:


http://fan1270.iheart.com/onair/the-power-trip-12367/nancy-cartwright-shocks-teen-with-bart-15680956/

Buffy the Vampire Slayer reunion: I loved that show when I was a teenager.  I started watching it at 14 in season 4.

I'm so incredibly proud of what we all created," Sarah Michelle Gellar said. "Sometimes you need distance to really understand the gravitas of that. I appreciate everything about that job. As an actor, all you ever want to do is leave your mark — you want to do something that affects people."

Buffy the Vampire Slayer premiered on March 10, 1997. To mark the 20-year reunion, several of the cast members took to social media and used the hashtag "#BuffySlays20."

Gellar posted a lengthy note about her time preventing the apocalypse on a weekly basis.
"That first season, we liked to think of ourselves as the little show that could. While we knew the potential, I don't think any of us saw the lasting impact our show would have. As an actor, you wish for that one role where you can leave your mark and forever be remembered, with Buffy I got so much more. She's a feminist challenge to gender hierarchy. Buffy may have been the Chosen One, but I was the lucky one," she wrote.

http://www.eonline.com/news/839519/the-buffy-the-vampire-slayer-cast-reunited-to-reminisce-make-your-heart-burst-and-reveal-secrets

'Very grateful:' Driver returns birthday cash to woman who left purse on train: This was by Lauren Krugel on the Edmonton Journal on Mar. 29, 2017:

CALGARY — A woman who left behind a purse with $1,300 in birthday cash on a light-rail transit train says she can barely believe someone was honest enough to return it.
Li Feng Yang had just received the money for her 75th birthday and was planning to deposit it in the bank. She was taking the train to see her doctor last week when she dropped the bag on the seat beside her.

Yang realized she'd forgotten it immediately after she got off the train in downtown Calgary and the doors closed.
"A rush of burning anxiety immediately came in," she said in a statement translated by her grandson, Kai Huang.

Yang, who does not speak English, met a Chinese-speaking man by the train station. He helped her call Calgary Transit and took her to the lost property office.
Train operator Mesfin Tadese found the bag during a walk-through when the train was at the end of the line and called the office to say he'd found the bag. He handed it off to the next driver to take to the lost and found.

The next morning, Yang received word that her bag, which also contained her cellphone and bank card, had been found. She went with her son to retrieve it.
She said she was surprised and "very happy, very grateful."

"It was hard to believe what I see. Is there really honest people that would return my lost bag with cash in it?" she said through Huang.
"Well, the undeniable truth is in front of me."

Yang thanked Tadese in person on Tuesday. She brought him two bouquets of flowers and embraced him at a downtown train station.
Tadese said he was just doing his job.

"I'm happy to see the original owner and give back the purse. I never thought it's a big deal like this."

Calgary Transit says 50 to 100 lost items are turned in every day.
In addition to wallets and cellphones, Calgary Transit has seen some odd items such as musical instruments and false teeth crop up.

https://www.tbnewswatch.com/ontario-news/very-grateful-driver-returns-birthday-cash-to-woman-who-left-purse-on-train-573768

Mar. 31, 2017 Man swallowed whole by a python: I found this in the National Post in the Edmonton Journal.  It didn't' say if he died or not, and he did.

A 25-year-old Indonesian man has been swallowed whole by a python on the island of Sulawesi, villagers and news reports said."


http://abc7ny.com/news/man-swallowed-by-python-reports-say-(graphic-video)/1825918/


Job search: I followed up on 2 interviews I did.  I emailed them.  One office job says there are still interviews. 

The other one said they won't be hiring after all.  That's fine, maybe they will have my resume on file and in the future they will hire me.